Maybe! I am pretty open minded when it comes to how we spend our time together. For first meets, I recommend you lay back and relax while I do what I do best. I promise you that you won’t regret letting me take the reins. Asking for consent goes a long way towards making me feel comfortable and willing to explore with you! Let’s discuss more – but in person only please.

I have a shower available at my incall and I welcome you to use it, especially if you showered more than a couple of hours ago. The lotion and oil I use is unscented, however you are welcome to use the shower at the end of your session, too. Please be aware that your session starts and ends when you enter the door, so shower time will be included in your session time.

Nuru massage is a body to body slide using nuru gel – its an odorless gel made from seaweed that is very slippery when warmed. I use the gel to slide our bodies together for a super intimate session where you can finish on my body. Because of the nature of the body contact, a shower before the session is required as well as a quick skin inspection to make sure we are safe to do body to body. The gel will need to be washed off since it is sticky when dried, so a shower after is necessary. Keep in mind the shower time is part of your session time.

I do not discriminate on who I see based on color, race, religion, sex, gender, sexual orientation, transgender status, disability status, limb differences, developmental disabilities, religious affiliation, size, shape, cancer survivor status, sexual experience level, hair type or style, immigration status, marital status, or physical appearance in any way I see men of all races and religions. In fact, some of the best connections are with people who are a lot different than me! I love to talk food, culture, and travel so we probably have plenty to talk about. The thing that is important to me is how you treat me and your hygiene, not what you look like or how your choose to live. I generally prefer to meet men who are 21+ since I just turned 30. I feel a bit weird to see someone who is barely of age. That said, if you are a young man feel free to reach out and blow me away with a great first impression. If you are mature and respectful, I may be comfortable seeing you.

Additionally, please note that my incall does require the ability to climb stairs. If you are a wheelchair user or otherwise can’t do stairs, please inform me that you would need me to come to you, or would like me to arrange a place to meet that is ADA accessible.

I do not require or accept references as a form of screening – to be blunt, people can treat different people differently. I will always provide a reference to another provider. In order to remain discreet, I require that you ask me to provide a reference (including the name and website or ad of that provider), and that you ask your provider to reach out on a number or email that’s listed on their ad or website. Otherwise, there is no way for me to know if this is a legitimate reference request, or if it is someone impersonating a provider in order to gain information about you from me. I respectfully ask that you limit your requests to the number of times we have met. It’s best to use the most recent provider you met with, so if I gave you 3 references a year ago, it makes more sense to use one of those providers for a new reference request.

I have met with clients who are CEO’s, in the news, famous, actors and musicians with star power, and yes they all screen with me. My safety is the most important thing to me, and if you are too nervous to share screening, I respectfully recommend you find someone else who can accommodate your needs. Discretion on my part is the heart of my business – I have no reason to divulge information about you to anyone, because without discretion I have no integrity as a provider and my reputation would go down the drain. Ask yourself why it would benefit me to out you in any way (spoiler alert - it doesn’t!) and in fact it would only harm me to do so. If you are on the fence about whether you can trust me, feel free to do a quick google search on me. I have reviews and a reputation that goes back several years. I am also well connected in the provider community of NYC, I may even know your ATF if you want to ask her to vouch for me ;) In my 5+ years doing this, I haven’t had a single incident in regards to lack of discretion.

Short answer is, I will certainly try! I love to explore fetishes and let my inner domme out to play. I am open minded as far as what I’ll try but I do have hard limits: no scat, diapers, blood, piercing, permanent damage or scarring, bruising, and anything that I deem risky or unsafe health-wise.

Likes: spanking, choking, face slapping impact play, roleplay, prostate massage, pegging, nipple play, sensation play, sense deprivation, tease and denial, chastity, edging, CBT, foot fetish, body worship, massage on me, pup play, forced crawling/begging, golden showers and other watersporting, butt plugs, anal training, dirty talk, light humiliation, verbal cock worship, small dick humiliation, paddling, whipping, sissification, cross dressing, clothed provider, ass worship, face sitting, and the list can go on! These are just some of the things I have enjoyed in the past. If you want to incorporate something in particular that I haven’t mentioned, you can ask me, but I prefer to discuss these things in person so we can be on the same page and everything is openly discussed in regards to consent. Some of these topics can be very intense and emotionally charged, and my top priority with any kink play is safety – both physical and mental. That said, if you are looking for a domination session with toys and props, please let me know what you’d like so I can bring it with me. Domination sessions where I bring items or make special preparations may require a deposit since I am doing preparatory work up front.

I have several items that I enjoy using on my subs, including a strap on, dildos, paddle, slapper, crop, whip, flogger, and vibrating toys. I welcome you to bring your own toys with you! I am not trained in bondage but it is something I want to learn more about. I’m comfortable with tying your wrists or feet or using handcuffs you provide, but nothing more than that until I am more skilled.

These sessions are often a lot more effort physically and mentally/emotionally. I usually negotiate a tip depending on what you specifically want. I also recommend at least a 1 hour session to do domination since there is a level of build up, as well as the necessity to provide after care.

I am not submissive to the men I see as a provider. If we develop a level of trust in the future, I could consider doing a roleplay where I am submissive to you. The one submissive act I truly enjoy is getting spanked! Anything more than that, however, is not my thing.

While kink and fetish play can be exciting and fun – they are by no means required or desired on my part in order to enjoy our time together. We can have an incredibly fun and hot time being present with each other for the wonderful erotic massage I provide – I guarantee you’ll enjoy it.

Your personal life is just that—personal. I do not need to know about anything you don’t wish to tell me. I am also completely judgment free. Having been in a long term relationship myself I understand there are so many challenges including intimacy. I am happy to do some light intimacy coaching with you if you’re feeling the desire to connect back with a partner. But I can also provide space just for you to connect with your own sexuality and desire.

Right now I am happily single! I enjoy the company of men who are clean, respectful, take care of themselves in various ways, are ambitious and driven, are sexually adventurous and willing to learn, and those who prioritize family time and a work life balance. I will certainly go on a date with you – my rates have dinner date options and I am also open to monthly arrangements with the right individual. Please note that asking for time with me “off the clock” is deeply disrespectful of my time and sends me a message that you don’t value what I provide. Repeatedly asking for “free” time with me will lead to me ending the relationship.

Yes! I love to play with couples. Keep in mind that BOTH parties need to screen with me, separately, on their own carrier phone numbers. This is to ensure that neither party is surprised. While a surprise threesome can sound hot on paper, there is no way for me to ensure that the other person is going to be okay with such a scenario. Consent is of the utmost importance!

I do not see two men together unless I have seen one (preferably both) of you individually before.

Yes, that is totally okay. I have seen women before! It’s up to you how you want to be touched. We can start slow and you’re in control of what you want to feel from me. This is a safe space and my main goal is your comfort and safety. Seeing a sensual massage provider is a great way to test the waters of how you might feel with another woman.

I have toyed with the idea of a content platform, but to be honest I dislike the idea that OF (or other online platforms) would be taking so much of your money. I would rather you give that to me! I am therefore working on a paid section of my site where private content would be posted for my clientele.

I base my grooming and hairstyles off of what I like for myself, not what anyone else likes. I am perfectly happy knowing that I may not be everyone’s cup of tea, and that is okay. However, I am happy to get a pedicure on your dime for our session; please mention it to me during the booking process and give me a week's notice so I can get an appointment at my regular nail salon that I trust. You can even pick the color! Bonus points if you spring for me to get the spa pedicure upgrade – you know how to impress a lady I see!

Before we meet, I can’t divulge too much about myself – again with the need for discretion. I am college educated, east coast born, and outside of my provider life, I am also an artist. Family is very important to me also. If you want to know more, I recommend you reach out to meet me! I promise you I don’t bite. Unless you’re into that ;)

Yes, however I ask that you fully read my site before you reach out. I have answered just about every reasonable question you may have. If there is something I missed, it may be something I can’t discuss due to the legality of the topic. Discretion is important to me, please don’t ask me something that I can’t talk about.

Your best bet is to screen with me first, ask questions after! I am an open book and want to make you feel comfortable to book with me, but I need to know you are serious and a real client before I get into any lengthy back and forth.