Etiquette & Policies
Required reading before booking
Discretion
I do not share your information with anyone unless you specifically ask me to, like in the event of giving a reference. I have an encrypted email address which I can provide for you to send screening information if you so choose. Discretion goes both ways, I expect you to keep our interactions private, as well as protect my contact information from falling into the wrong hands. I do not call or text you out of the blue, and I expect the same courtesy. We both have full and busy lives and I expect our time together to be kept confidential.
Respect
Respect my time, autonomy, personhood, and profession. I will do the same to you.
Consent
Consent is extremely important to me. Use your words to ask for what you want or to tell me what you like. If you do not ask for consent during our session, it’s possible our session will have to end early because I do not feel safe or respected.
Hygiene
I am an individual who takes great care of herself as you’ll see when you meet me. In my humble opinion, taking care with your hygiene means that you respect yourself and care about your well-being. It also shows that you want your partner(s) to feel comfortable and safe with you. Please arrived fresh showered (don’t forget all the nooks and crannies!), shaved (if that’s part of your routine) with minty fresh breath, having eaten a meal that day. In the event you’re coming from work or another event where you can’t shower immediately before, I do have a shower available. I also provide disposable tooth brushes and mouth wash.
Health and Safety
I am unable to interact with any part of your body that has cuts, scrapes, open sores or wounds, gum disease, infections, as well as any lumps or bumps that could be STI’s. Please make me aware of any such areas and be advised I may choose to wear nitrile gloves if I feel I could be at risk.
Late Policy
In the event that you are running late, please inform me via text as soon as you know, and give me an updated ETA. I can usually accommodate up to a 15 minute late arrival, but keep in mind I reserve a specific time frame for you and I can’t guarantee that you’ll be able to stay the whole time if you are more than 10 minutes late. Regardless of lateness, the full amount of session is due at the start of our time together since I reserved that window of time just for you.
Deposit and Cancellation Fees
We are all human and things can occasionally happen that will cause the session to be canceled. If I must cancel on you, any deposit paid will be refunded in the same manner it was paid, as soon as I am able to refund. This is a rare occurrence and in my over 7 years of doing this, I have only had to cancel a handful of times.
In the event that you cancel our session, you may be asked to send up to the full amount of the session cost via cashapp or other means. You may also be asked to pay a deposit for future appointments.
Deposits are at my discretion. I may ask for up to 50% deposit in order to hold your time. During tours, deposits are required, even if we have met before. This helps me to shoulder the costs of the tour as I book my accommodations and travel.
